Differences between Over 40 Men and Young Men When Choosing a Partner
When it comes to choosing a partner, what would be considered as the main differences between a young man and a man over 40? Although there are no concrete answers, there are some general observations that can be made.
If you are looking at the overall life experience of the two, of course, the older person is going to have more, much more. However, that could be undesirable as well as a good thing. If the older man has had a difficult life full of hardships and pitfalls he won’t be that great of a partner will he? Then again, it may have left him open to living a better life and could be the best man you could ever hope to find. The younger man on the other hand, although inexperienced, he could be up for anything. They have less fear and expectations and could be just the man you need in your life.
Younger men in our modern world have a much more open outlook on almost everything. Most of them are not as respectful of women as older men, they are not shocked by the women’s movement as perhaps over 40 men are. Then of course there is the fact that younger men are at their sexual peak. They may not have as much ‘know-how’ as an older man but they may take your ‘hints’ about what you want them to do with more eagerness. That of course doesn’t take into consideration the ability to keep you between the sheets for an all-nighter you won’t forget any time soon.
Remember that if you date a seriously older or younger man you may be at different places in your lives. Mature men over 40 are at the stage in their careers where breaking the upper stratosphere is not any longer a goal at work. They are slowing down and being more comfortable. Dating over 40 single men will be that way with most things in their lives. A younger man will still be willing to work seven days a weeks and is climbing that corporate ladder quickly. He will be that way with most things in his life – including you.
Another thing to think about in dating is their friendship circles. There may be times when singles over 40 has older friends and family and they are looking at you as a ‘sexual toy’ for him. Same is true when dating a younger man. His friends may not like you if you are older and they may look at you as a ‘mother figure’ or the ‘older woman’ in his life. With both men it is possible your sets of friends may not fit well together and it could cause problems.
As you can see there are many things to consider when looking at the age of the men you will date and seek out as friends or lovers. There cannot be any standard ‘rules’ for anyone. It can be a wonderful experience or a miserable one. You have to just jump in there and try them out. It will be up to you to make the decisions of what happens. Just be open to new experiences and try them out.