4 Kinds of Mature “Good Men” Disliked By Mature Women

dating over 40When you’re looking for over 40 dating opportunities with mature singles, you probably know by now that your chances are slimmer as compared to when you were in your twenties. This doesn’t mean though that there are little to no opportunities because there are many just like you looking for over 40 women who are interested in just playful dating or even to settle down in a lifelong relationship. The need to impress is still needed and in fact even more important now that you’re more mature. These mature ladies wouldn’t just settle with any guy because after all, they’ve waited this long for the right one; so most definitely, he should be the right one.

If you are one of these over 40  men looking for a mature women to date, you must take into consideration these four “attitudes” that are not too attractive for over 40 women. If you have one of a few of these attitudes, then you must think twice whether you’re in the right track.

  1. Reputation is Your Priority

Nothing’s bad with a good reputation; in fact, it’s a very good thing, but if you’re too uptight about it, these over 40 women would probably just proceed to the next guy. This is when you’d rather go to a fine dining restaurant at all times for a date even if a burger and some fries in the hip new spot in town is a must-try just because you don’t want to get spotted dating the “young” way. It could also be when you would refuse to give hugs or even hold hands in public because someone you know might see you and think you’re too sensitive.

  1. Works is Another Priority

busy man over 40Of course, most mature singles will probably understand if you give time to your job especially if it requires you to be in an office daily from 9 to 5. However, if late at night and you’re on a date with one of these beautiful over 40 women and you keep on checking your phone and answering calls while in the middle of a meal or a conversation, then you’re already blowing your chance.

  1. It’s Always Your Kids

For sure you love your kids, and they are part of your priorities. You have to separate the fact though that dating isn’t for your kids. Sure, you can make your kids a topic of conversation every once in a while but it would be best if you can talk about yourself and not your kids all the time.

  1. Your Friends are Everything

If you’re building a relationship with a woman, yet you still hang out with your friends like you’re boys who just hit puberty, then you are probably not ready for these amazing single women yet. Though your friends are awesome, they probably won’t sleep beside you when night comes and be with you for the whole life. If you’re looking for a relationship, prioritize the right way.